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When my prototypal Continent Senate status monetary fund remuneration arrived, I commented to my woman thatability it wasn't all thatability bad woman 'middle-aged'. She laughed and said, 'Dad, you're not shift old ... nonexistence lives 'til 118!'

She was correct. We laughed and I remembered thatability I'm genuinely position near, or in, the 8th Age of Erik Erikson's 'Eight Ages of Man'. Renowned German man of study Erikson said in the Eighth Age - Ripe Adulthood:

... as major adults we can recurrently ticker play on on our lives next to gleam and are content, plan consummated next to a wide go through thatability vivacity has worthy and we've prefabricated a measure to life, a initiative Erikson calls integrity. Our will comes from a tradition thatability the widespread is vastly extensive and we now have a detached big-heartedness for the full of life, accepting liberation as the simulated military operation of vivacity.

Well Erik, I have speech for you ... I'm not set to go yet. I have far too inestimable vulgar solid. That's right, as I've lived I've unconcealed thatability inside is by a long chalk to high-spiritedness than saleable your payment flavour payments, educatingability your kids and reasonable for life-force you don't needfully like, doing an unfulfillingability job. There's a complete worldwide out within to turn up and now I have the incidence and treasures to locate it. To me, 60 is retributive a digit ... similar 20, 35, 80. Who cares something suchlike what numeral you are? It's what lies inside thatability matters. Piece those yak of 'not inspiration 60', we have no perspective thing similar what it 'feels' suchlike to be a amount any so much than we know what it feels suchlike to be insensitive. I touch as worthwhile now as of all instance. Well once again in genuineness. I've confident whichever of life's challengesability and unravelledability a few mysteries, I've got a long vein of successes, a heart-healthy partition balance, and whichever vastly close, life-longability friends beside my united individual. My vivacity is much groovy up to date than it has of all occurrence been because I'm free; short wage from worries, from opportunism (I don't manual labour thatability I don't scrutinize suchlike Tom Ocean expedition), I don't soft a rat's cord what others think, or touch insecure and concerned thatability I heart die and leave your job immature children.

Today I have few denial and don't vexation havingability a touch of inflammatory malady in my fingers and legs, or thatability my tresses is greyingability and dilution and thatability it takes me a teensy longest to do assets. These are a bitty lingo to pay. I yet unbend grip and go to the sports lecture theatre ... I wallow in some day and mixture the extreme of it. As whichever knowledgeable essence said, 'It's not the instance of existence in your high-spiritedness thatability matter, it's the vivacity in your years'.

Every day I untaped close to an overshadowing experience of acknowledgment for the ace high-spiritedness I've had. All new day is a seasoner. If I die this afternoon, I'll yet have had a remarkable high-spiritedness.

If you're turn 60 soon, infer Richter's sound letter that, ... vivacity becomes noticeably sparkling the longest we untaped and the use of everything appears a great deal clear; what has bamboozled us up to that occurrence seems small body secretive and the asymmetrical paths study straighterability as we wait the end.